Hi, I’m Bessie McCoy, and welcome to peychoosingbalance.com — a space devoted to the quiet art of living in the middle.
Here, balance isn’t about perfection. It’s not about doing everything right or having it all figured out. It’s about choosing — every day — to come back to what feels true, peaceful, and possible.
Life has a way of pulling us in a hundred directions. Between work, family, health, and the endless scroll of modern living, it’s easy to lose sight of what matters. This blog was born out of that tension — the ongoing journey to find steadiness in the middle of the beautiful mess.
Through reflections, stories, and honest lessons from my own life, Pey Choosing Balance explores what it means to live with intention — to slow down, listen inward, and make choices that support your version of balance, not someone else’s.
You won’t find quick fixes or strict formulas here. What you’ll find is presence. Small steps. And the gentle reminder that balance isn’t something we find once — it’s something we keep choosing.
So whether you’re rebuilding, realigning, or simply trying to breathe a little easier, you’re in the right place.
Welcome to the middle — where peace lives, where growth begins, and where balance is always within reach.